Busting Excuses!
When we get nervous, we make excuses. When we are greeted with the option to step outside our comfort zone, we sometime panic and take a step back into what we know. Even if step back is to negative self talk. We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy, we are too crazy at work, or always have to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes it’s more important to spend time with your spouse. We also use excuses like, “I want to lose 15 lbs first!” and “I just don’t have the money right now!”.
I wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me show you that no matter the excuses, you are worthy of self love!
“I don’t have enough time for myself.”
It’s also important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but is actually much harder said than done! (I know this from firsthand experience). Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with you all. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say, “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breath for a minute!”.
At a boudoir shoot you are able to breath and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. You get to see where your beauty really comes from, and this lifts such a huge mental weight.
You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting pampered for once?
“I’m not where I want to be weight wise/I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size”
I’m going to be honest; my heart hurts every time I hear this.
Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal, is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT.
I will say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you’ve heard me say it before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? WHY do you have to fit a strangers messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no 2 women are the same!
I think its amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. If you’ve ever had a phone call with me you know my main motto is, “We are here to meet our bodies where they’re at in this phase of life and show it the love and attention it deserves!” Every phase your body goes through deserves praise. I will die on that hill so don’t argue with me.
Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where you are going. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you’ve met your goal (whether that’s loosing 15lbs or just feeling stronger) to celebrate how far you’ve come!
“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.”
*Cue buzzer sound, AHHHHHHHHHH*
WRONG.
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.
Often times we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and ok! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to put that spark back in us. I can show you that you have that inside you somewhere, and it might even ignite a spark between you and your spouse as well!
Another thing to remember is that you don’t HAVE to wear super sexy clothing/lingerie. If you feel like this doesn’t show your personality, then there are so many other outfit ideas. If you need ideas, I will gladly talk to you about them, or you can check out our blog on finding outfits here!
“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now”
Yes, a boudoir shoot IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well! We do offer payment plans! In order to book your shoot, there is a session fee, and after that we can set up your payment plan for product order so that it might be easier to book a shoot! If you have any questions about our payment plans, shoot us an email while setting up your shoot!
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